Does Your Wife Even Want to Have Sex with You?

Here’s the harsh truth about long-term passion: what you think you know about your marriage might be completely wrong. Brace yourself—this isn’t comfortable, but it’s the reality many men quietly face.

Here is the challenging revelation you already felt: NO! She gets sick and would rather cry, but she puts her “I love you” face on, suck it up and invest a tremendous amount of energy to pretend, while striving to convincingly project joy.

In some cases, when the strain becomes unbearable, the depletion of her internal strength, akin to an emotional upheaval. And at this point you'd ask yourself ...

Is this behavior something reserved for only a specific group of women?

The answer is: Yes! It's common for women who've spent some 'blissful' years in marriage. While you’re remaining horny as hell, her sex drive slowly fades away while she remains the same nagging bitch who always has a problem with something you’ve done or failed to do.

But how comes that most women can go 2-3 months without sex?
According to a survey spanning six continents, we sampled a research focusing on women immersed in long-term marriages (exceeding the five-year mark), mostly mothers, with husbands that spend at least 9 hours at their jobs. We've aked ladies that exhibit diverse roles, some balancing professional careers alongside motherhood, while others have embraced the role of stay-at-home moms. The insights garnered provide a nuanced understanding of the experiences and dynamics within marriages and shed some bright light on the complexities of relationships in varied cultural and occupational contexts.

Only just a few women have claimed the opposite of what you’ve already read above. With small exceptions, each and every of the surveyed women states that she can go without sex for an extended period of time. In fact, she prefers to be left alone and not engaged in any way because (while she can fake it), there are instances when she can hardly suppress her true emotions about it all.

Does that mean that all married women become asexual after a while?

Plain and simple: Hell NO! She’s just not into you, that’s all. It's hard to say but she has successfully shed every last drop of passion for you!

Yes, you became an habit. More like a brother than a passionate lover. And who wants to have sex with a brother, right? In short: you are no longer on trend dude, and in this position you've everything to lose.

And now you remember that this doesn’t leave her indifferent to other men. In fact, other men are not perceived that way. Your wildest imagination kicks, and suddenly you become creative making up stories and even imagining her with another man. And after you've got yourself together; - You'd better come up with a plan.

Now go give her some room (distance yourself on account of professional occupation) act like a proper caveman, and don’t be surprised when she packs her bags (or yours for that matter) and break the entire deal.

Instead behave like a true gentleman; focusing on strengthening your emotional connection through shared activities, open communication, and quality time together. Help her out with daily errands and chores, surprise her and make her life EASIER, so she can in fact, be back to her pure femenine energy and be the good, soft and sweet girl you want her to be. Be the man who fucks her mind and watch her melt. Only then no other man will be able to penetrate her defense.

But wait.., does it mean that you’ll never regain the passion; ever again?

Again: NO! But it depends on the case, where the “case” is the basic character of your wife.

If she’s someone with the temper (which one isn’t, right?), who knows exactly what she wants and how she wants it, you’ll hear from her. It won’t be a pleasant experience, but in the long run, this is a far better situation than the one with the woman who stays silent (caution label here).

Because, the one who’ll have no problem kicking your 'assets' and speak her mind about it, will “help herself” reach the orgasm. If the convo finds its great end, it has the potential to trigger the multiple orgasms at her, even after 20 years of marriage.

But the ones that are silent and hard to penetrate (in mind, you pervert), those are 'the troublemakers'.

She doesn’t know how to help herself. So she’ll pretend to some extent. But keep behaving like an upset animal and you can bet your ass that she’ll almost hate you while you’re “making love” to her.

So, is there something you can do to keep that fire going?

It's essential not to overestimate your prowess! If your wife doesn't want to go to bed with you might be beacuse you're not that good at the game, as you may think. Let's be clear: no woman on Earth rejects a state of pure ecstasy and joy, particularly when it comes to intimate moments. If you've been relying on the same playbook since the day of your marriage vows, it's time to reconsider and change your moves.

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And why not to say it: Is all about DYNAMICS! That’s the first thing you must have in mind after being a couple of years in marriage. There are different ways to keep the flame alive and gift-making works quite well. If you two are living in some urban center, that dynamics mostly revolves around money and financial stability. Money is perceived as a safety feature. It allows her to nest improved stability.

Thus, the more money you make, the more passionate she gets.

BUT…
Money and gifts won’t do the trick on its own. Best is to get her addicted to sex (with you)!